Taken from MARRIAGE SAVERS
by
Michael J. McManus
Copyright 1995 by Michael J. McManus
Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House
Chapter Nine
Marriage Encounter:
The Best Marriage Saver
“We have this to say: Every couple should
make a Marriage Encounter…It’s like coming home with a new bride!
-Husband, age eighty plus, interviewed by the
National Institute for the Family
In spring 1976, Harriet and I experienced a weekend
retreat that literally changed our lives. After a decade of marriage, we
fell back in love with one another but at a far more profound level than
anything we had experienced before. When the retreat ended, we felt as if
we had been on a honeymoon, but one designed by God to bond us together in a
transcendental marriage. The impact of the weekend has been permanent
because we learned a new form of soul-to-soul communication that has
deepened and enriched each day of our marriage in the seventeen years
since. There is no question that I never would have considered writing a
book on how to save marriages if our own marriage had not been irrevocably
uplifted and transformed.
The weekend is called
Marriage Encounter.
Our experience is not
unique. Nearly five million couples have made a Marriage Encounter weekend
since the movement was founded in 1968, and objective, scientific research
on Marriage Encounter is unanimous: Eight or nine of every ten couples who
attend a ME weekend fall back in love with their spouse…the same
experience that Harriet and I had. That’s an astonishing track record.
If you can’t take my
word, or that of the academicians on this, take the word of Dr. James C.
Dobson, the Christian psychologist, whose radio program, “Focus on the
Family”, is the most widely aired show (more than 1,700 radio stations) in
America. He confesses that he attended Marriage Encounter “for professional
reasons, not expecting to get anything relevant to my wife and me. If there
is anything I felt that Shirley and I didn’t need, it was help in
communicating. I rarely have been more wrong. Marriage Encounter gave
Shirley and me the opportunity to occasion the deepest most intimate
exchange of feelings we had known in 20 years…It proved to be one of the
highlights of my life. I just wish that everyone who trusts my opinion
would now accept this advice: Attend a Marriage Encounter weekend at the
earliest opportunity”.
The single
step that could do the most to save marriages
I am convinced that the single step that could do
more than any other to slash America’s divorce rate is for every married
couple to attend a Marriage Encounter weekend. If you are married and have
not gone on a Marriage Encounter, put this book down and sign up for the
next one. To learn more, call 1-800-795-LOVE. Your call will be recorded
by Worldwide Marriage Encounter, which organizes weekends for 15,000 couples
a year. You will be called personally by an ME volunteer in your area who
can tell you when you may attend a local ME weekend with people from eleven
different denominations.
NOTE: For more
information about Marriage Encounter in the Central Ohio area,
Call or write Paul and Marilou Clouse, 740-746-9003
Rt. 1 Box 616, Sugar
Grove, OH 43155
or see WWMEColumbus.org